The ULTIMATE Name Game: Why I'm Learning EVERY Student's Name

You tell students that they matter. You tell them their struggles and issues are your concern. You smile at them in the hallways and say things like “cool shoes”.  You teach them study skills, responsibility, personal safety, self-esteem, and so much more.

You genuinely want them to succeed.

What’s their name?

Do you know their name?

     You may know what sports team they are on. Or if their brother or sister went to your school. You may know who they hang out with or who they date. But do you know their name?

I am making it my personal goal to answer that question with a solid “YES!!”

     This week I delivered my first guidance lesson to each 7^th and 8^th grader at my school. 6^th grade is coming up next week. I talked to my students about the role of a school counselor and why I value their opinions. I told them that I will be there for them whether they just need a smile and “good morning”, all the way to weekly check in meetings. I will stand by what I told them. And, and, AND…I will know their names.

I will know every student’s name by the end of the first semester. That is my goal, and I will keep you all updated as to how it is going! I need to memorize at least 29 names a week. That is going to be a HUGE challenge.

I know that we can impact students in many ways. I am not suggesting that the only way to know your students is to know their names. I just want this for my school and myself.

This is Mere in the middle of trying to put 418 faces and names into my brain! Wish me luck! Any tips or advice? Comment below! 

From the middle with love,

Mere

One More Sleep Until I'm Officially a School Counselor

    I'm up later than I should be since tomorrow is the first day of school. My body's clock isn't used to going to sleep at 9:30, yet. Yes, I go to bed that early. Bahaha Anyway, my point is that I'm still awake and the alarm will go off at 5.

    I have ALL the feels about the official first day of my career. I'm excited, nervous, clueless at times, rocking it at times, pumped, and eager. My office is ready. The bulletin board is done. My little binders are stuffed full of resources.

      But when it all piles up, can I actually keep it all organized? Will I still be compassionate after weeks of exhausting cases? Will I document everything correctly? And don't get me started on testing. Yikes.

And the biggest question rolling through my mind...
Will I make the difference that I have dreamed of making?

There is just one more sleep between me and answering those questions. One more sleep between me and what I spent five years, countless hours, and those wonderful student loans, to do. Tomorrow morning I start my first year as a school counselor.

Lunch- check.
Outfit picked out- check.
Work bag ready.

Now I guess the only thing to do is get to that one more sleep!


Any starting the school year advice? Please leave a comment below!

From the Middle with Love,

Mere

Welcome to Mere in the Middle! I am SO excited this blog is finally happening! Let me introduce myself! My name is Meredith Quinn! I graduated in May of this year from the University of Mississippi with a Masters of Education in Leadership and Counseling Education. Now, I am the school counselor at Hamburg Middle School in Hamburg, AR.

I am a first year counselor, and I am EXCITED. I am joining the school counseling blog community to collaborate and generate resources for our field’s use! I am eager to contribute from the perspective of my new program!

This blog is mostly a school counseling blog, but I also want to write about all areas of my life! I am in a middle school, in the middle of marriage, in the middle of a new town, the middle of adulting, and the middle of starting my career. 

In the past six months I have transitioned from graduate student to professional school counselor, and I plan to tell you guys all about it! I hope to talk about everything: internship, preparing for graduation, interviews and job search, starting the job, and MUCH more.  Be on the lookout for all the posts to come! 

Are you a first year counselor, too?  Are you a seasoned counselor that can give advice or tips? I would LOVE any feedback for my first year, so comment under the post! 

From the middle with love,

Mere